There is suffering and then there is suffering. There is suffering from the inevitable consequences of the unconscious choices we have made. And then there is the suffering of the conscious choices we have made. Once we become aware of how our unconscious choices caused our suffering most of us course correct and make the…
“Relationships are created in person.” This is the #1 rule I give all my clients when navigating relationships. Texting has taken over our communication channels and yet is the most ineffective way to express oneself. Text is great for communicating logistics, but most times leads to misunderstandings, conflict, and possible chaos in relationships. There is…
Christian religions teach us to love our enemies, and this is considered the highest and most difficult of love. Based on this teaching the next question is: Who is your enemy if we are all one?? This would mean that the enemy is you. What, you say? Can I be my own enemy? And the…
When we feel broken hearted, the pain we experience many times causes us to erect a wall around our heart as a form of protection. In attempting to keep out any future potential experiences that could cause pain, we also inadvertently keep out love. A broken heart is merely a heart that is a little…
Many people have been conditioned since childhood to believe that they are weak, too weak to effect any change in their lives let alone understand they are in essence the creator of their life. Yet everyone is creating their own life 100% of the time, we just don’t realize it because we are doing it…
Very often we do not choose to look at the truth and reality in our life situations, that is self-evident and in front of us, in an attempt to avoid pain and conflict. We, in effect, “deceive or delude” ourselves out of fear of what it might mean and how our life would change if…
Guilt can take many forms: you can feel guilty for something you’ve done or said, and conversely the opposite is true as well; wherein we feel guilt for something we didn’t do or say and should have or we could have had guilt used on us as children as a behavior modification tactic. In all…
Can you believe in the truth that you already have all the answers you need? The first step in Simply Leda’s Self-Identity Education is to learn to turn inward. To rely on yourself for the answers to all your decisions. When you look outward, to friends, family, colleagues, you will ultimately receive their truth based…
Vulnerability: a word and action most of us shun or at least shudder to even think about. There are so many different reactions elicited when the topic comes up that it can send a simple conversation spiraling out of control. Why is that? Why is this word with all its implications such a hot bed?…
How many times have we seen people experiencing the same event yet walk away with completely different perceptions of it? Einstein tells us that perception creates reality. Taking this to be true, how then is our perception created? Perception is formulated by experience plus your ingrained belief systems – both consciously and subconsciously. This means…
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